Welcome to your Relationship Assessment Quiz
My partner is almost always attuned to how I am doing
I value my partner's input in discussions and decisions
My partner doesn’t make me feel stupid
I consider my partner to have many positive character qualities that I admire
Even when annoyed with each other, we do not try to shame each other
My partner is a good listener
My partner and I can talk about contentious issues without disrespecting one another
I almost always feel heard and understood by my partner
My partner is mostly good at being present.
When I enter a room, I can see that my partner is glad to see me
I feel that my partner generally likes my personality
I believe my partner is a person of strong character
My partner and I regularly make sacrifices for each other
When we are annoyed with each other, we do not resort to put-downs or take shots at each other
I feel cared for in this relationship
When we are annoyed with each other, we do not resort to harmful/ hurtful sarcasm
I often find ways to tell my partner I love them
Romance is still a big part of our relationship
I often feel very proud of my partner
Our relationship is certainly NOT “it's my way or the highway”
I feel loved in my relationship
My partner really enjoys and celebrates my achievements and accomplishments
If I had to do it all over again, I would marry my partner all over again
When we are apart, I often think fondly of my partner and long to be with them again soon
I feel like my partner appreciates the things I do in our relationship
I feel SEEN in my relationship
I can easily tell you several reasons I married my partner
We rarely go to sleep without some show of affection or love
We can talk about sex freely
I feel accepted by my partner
I can easily list 3 things I most admire about my partner
I often find some way to show my partner I love them
I will often kiss or touch my partner affectionately without the expectation of sex
I believe my partner respects me
I believe my partner likes me
Definition of LIKE: to feel attraction toward or take pleasure in
I like my partner
Definition of LIKE: to feel attraction toward or take pleasure in